What to Write on a Valentine's Day Card

Valentine’s Day cards can feel surprisingly high-pressure. Whether you’re writing to a partner, crush, friend, teacher or even showing a little employee appreciation to your team, finding the right words isn’t always easy.

The good news? There’s no one “correct” Valentine’s message. Some are side-splitting, some are romantic, some are sincere and simple – and all of them are valid. The key is matching the message to your relationship and your tone. (Don’t worry, we’ll help you figure it out!)

Here are 40 Valentine’s Day message ideas you can write in our gorgeous group cards.

Funny Valentine’s Day Messages

Funny Valentine’s Day messages are perfect for friends, partners with a great sense of humour and even workplace teams where a light-hearted tone is welcome. They take the pressure off saying something overly sentimental and instead focus on laughter, shared jokes and genuine appreciation. A playful message can brighten someone’s day, strengthen connections and boost morale – especially when it’s used as an opportunity to remind people how much they’re valued. When done thoughtfully, humour becomes a simple but powerful way to show you care. 

• Happy Valentine’s Day to the person who still puts up with me.
• You’re my favourite human. Don’t tell the dog.
• I love you more than coffee. And that’s saying something.
• Thanks for being my Valentine and my emotional support human.
• We go together like Netflix and “Are you still watching?”
• I’d choose you again. Even on a Monday.
• You’re the reason I tolerate people.
• Roses are red, violets are blue – I’m bad at poems, but I love you.
• Happy Valentine’s Day to the person who knows all my passwords.
• I love you even when you steal the covers.
• You’re the calm in my life – well, the calm before the storm!

Romantic Valentine’s Day Messages

Little tip from us: don’t send these to your friends! These messages are for the soulmate kind of relationships – someone who’ll tolerate the sappiness.  

• Every day with you is my favourite.
• You make my life better just by being in it.
• Loving you is the easiest thing I’ve ever done.
• Thank you for being my safe place and my home.
• I’m so grateful for the life we’re building together.
• You are my today and all of my tomorrows.
• My heart feels fuller because of you.
• I fall for you a little more every day.
• You are my constant and my happiness.
• I choose you – always.
• Every day is Valentine’s Day with you!

Serious Valentine’s Day Messages

These messages are more thoughtful, sincere and emotionally grounded – not overly romantic but not for the jokesters among you either. Ideal for a long-term partner. 

• Thank you for the love, patience and understanding you bring into my life.
• I deeply appreciate the care and commitment we share.
• Being with you has taught me what partnership really means.
• I value our relationship and the trust we’ve built together.
• Your presence brings stability and meaning to my life.
• Thank you for growing with me.
• I respect and admire the person you are.
• Our relationship matters to me more than words can say.
• I’m grateful for everything we’ve navigated together.

Friendly Valentine’s Day Messages

Great for friends, Galentine’s, family, colleagues and employees – basically all your non-romantic connections. 

• Happy Valentine’s Day to someone I’m lucky to have in my life.
• Sending love and good vibes your way today.
• Valentine’s Day is better with friends like you.
• So grateful for you – today and always.
• Thanks for being such a bright part of my life.
• Here’s to friendship, laughter and way too much chocolate.
• Happy Valentine’s Day! You’re appreciated more than you know.
• Sending you love, kindness and a little extra joy today.
• Who needs romance when you’ve got great friends?
• Celebrating you today – because you’re better than any partner! 

Valentine’s Day Messages for Teachers

Yes, you can absolutely write your teacher a Valentine’s Day card. What better way to make them feel appreciated? Whether written in a card, signed by a whole class or added to a small Valentine’s gift, these lines help students say “thank you” while celebrating the kindness and encouragement teachers give every day.

• Happy Valentine’s Day! Thank you for making our classroom such a happy place.
• We’re so lucky to have a teacher like you – thank you for everything you do!
• Thanks for helping us learn and smile every day. Happy Valentine’s Day!
• You make learning fun, and we appreciate you so much!
• Happy Valentine’s Day to a teacher who truly cares about their students.
• Thank you for all the kindness and encouragement you share with us.
• We’re grateful for you today and every day – Happy Valentine’s Day!
• Thanks for making school a place we love to be.
• Happy Valentine’s Day! We appreciate your patience, support and big heart.
• Sending lots of thanks and appreciation your way this Valentine’s Day!

A Final Tip

The best Valentine’s Day messages don’t try to be perfect – they try to be honest. Whether you’re funny, romantic, serious or simply kind, the right message is the one that sounds like you.

Need a Little Help Crafting the Perfect Message? 

When you write your message on our beautiful group cards, our AI Magic Message Writer will help you write the perfect message. This is perfect for a Galentine’s celebration or employee appreciation where you’re bringing the group together to share some beautiful messages to someone who deserves a little extra love. 

Celebrate Valentine’s Day as a Team with GroupTogether

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be just about romantic gestures – it’s also a great opportunity to show appreciation to your wider team. A small, thoughtful gesture can go a long way in making people feel valued, especially in busy or remote workplaces.

With GroupTogether, you can send bulk eGift Cards to all your staff at once. Choose a design, add a warm message, select your gift amount and deliver everything in one simple send. It’s an easy, inclusive way to spread a little love across your organisation, boost morale and mark the occasion without adding extra admin to your day. Because sometimes, the best Valentine’s gesture is simply letting your team know they’re appreciated. 

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