How To Organise The Best Wedding Group Gift

By Ali + Julie on 8 May 2023

Weddings are an incredibly special and unique time for a bride and groom. For the guests, giving a wedding gift was traditionally seen as a way to help the newlyweds start their life together. But times have changed and the need for giving china, platters and crystal has fallen by the wayside as an increasing number of couples have already established a home before they get married.

So, if a couple already has all the basics, what is the best wedding gift to give? The best wedding gift is one given with love and thoughtfulness. From a beautifully written letter to the couple to a painting they have fallen in love with, a gift comes in many forms. Since we aren’t experts on writing a lovely letter, this post will look at the best way to organise an incredible wedding gift.

Pool Your Resources

One of the most common difficulties wedding guests face is budgetary constraints, how to afford a quality wedding gift that is both memorable and fitting. By pooling your resources with those of the other wedding guests, you can collaborate on a group gift. Most likely you will have friends among the other wedding guests, but if not, a quiet word to the mother of the bride or groom will secure you with the names you need. By grouping together, you will all be able to give a sensational group wedding gift.

Understand The Couple

When it comes to organising the best wedding group gift, one of the first and most crucial steps is to truly understand the couple you're celebrating. While a thoughtful gift is always appreciated, a gift that reflects the couple's personality, interests, and needs is even more meaningful. Take the time to get to know them on a deeper level. What are their hobbies? Do they have a shared passion, like cooking, travelling, or gardening? Are there specific items they've been eyeing for their home or upcoming adventures? Understanding their preferences and desires will not only help you select the perfect gift but also show the couple that you've put thought and care into your choice.

Choose The Gift

Circulate the gift list to the group and request input and suggestions from each participating individual to ensure everyone who is contributing has a say. Once the group has agreed on a gift, make sure it is available and determine what it will cost to purchase. Divvy up this cost by the number of guests participating and let your gift-giving group know the amount they will need to contribute.

Organise The Guests To Chip In

Use as a hassle-free way to collect contributions from the other wedding guests. GroupTogether will invite, collect, track, and transfer the gift money for you. Automatic (and polite) reminders are dispatched to ensure a smooth collection process and a collaborative Group card featuring heartfelt messages and photos from everyone involved is created. After the gift funds have been received, withdraw them to your account and make the purchase!

Give Your Gift

Now the fun part! Decide with your group where and when the gift will be given. Should you bring it to the reception or have it delivered to the couple’s home? Don’t forget to email or print out the GroupCard and enjoy the look of surprise and delight on the faces of the bride and groom when they open it!

Giving a fabulous wedding gift doesn’t need to be financially stressful. By grouping together with other wedding guests, you will be able to give a group gift that they will cherish for many years to come. Start by working together with other wedding guests to learn more about the newlyweds, and then begin searching for gifts that match their interests. Choose the group favourite making sure it’s available and within budget. Use to collect the funds effortlessly and create a group card from all the guests. Finally, enjoy giving the gift of a lifetime!

Have you ever given a group wedding gift? How did it turn out? We’d love to hear from you.

The perfect wedding card and gift

Say congratulations with a thoughtful card and gift from everyone. Chip in with friends or colleagues and give one great wedding gift they’ll really appreciate.

Ali Julie Square

Ali + Julie

Co-Founders, GroupTogether

Life’s busy. That’s why we’re here to make it easy for you to collect money from a group. Less wasted time, less packaging waste, and spending a little less but giving a lot better!

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